Asking her for a date:
• Before asking her out for a date, try to have some conversation together. This will be an opportunity for you to discover if your personalities and ideas are attuned with each other, before you do decide to ask her out for a date.
• When calling through the phone. Don’t forget to mention to her the conversations you had. This will give her the impression that you do listen, making her feel important. Then if you feel that it is time to ask her, go ahead; ask gently, not in a demanding manner.
• Ask when you both are alone. Never ask a girl out on a date in front of her friends and others. If she says no, you will both be embarrassed.
During the date:
• Look good; be neat. Put extra effort to the way you look. Take the time be well-groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well. It must correspond to the place with which your date is set. Make a good impression, so you can charm her, and she can be proud of you.
Don't be late. Prepare for the big day ahead. Make the necessary reservations and plan for your date. She will be impressed that you did put some effort on your night together. Be sure that during the big day you have no appointments so you won’t be stressing and can be on time to your date.
• Be polite. Make sure to complement her on the way she looks. When you are seated at the table, be sure to turn off your cell phone. This will signal to her that you are very much interested in your moments together.
Call her by name. Make it a point to say her name every so often in your conversations, to make her feel at ease and special.
• Smile. Aside from putting up a positive attitude, your smile is an indication that you are happy to be with her. Use Your Sense of Humor. Making a woman laugh means you have won half your battle.This means that she is having a great date and will create a positive atmosphere. This will be an occasion she would remember, because she had fun!
• Be attentive. Listen to what she has to say, and do not interrupt. Make eye contact and let her finish, before you state your opinion.
• Be honest. Let her get to know you by telling her what you do and what interests you. If she doesn't like you for what you are, then is she not worth your time. Show interest in her, too, by asking her about her work, hobbies and her likes. Be sensible and honest in initiating such conversations.
• Relax. Don't worry about your date not having a good time. Just manage yourself well and enjoy the evening. Keep the conversations open and ask questions. Be sincere.
Don't pretend. Be yourself. Pretending to be somebody that you’re not will not work in the long run. The truth will always come out sooner or later. It is a rewarding feeling if someone is drawn to you for who you really are.
• Never compare. It will be very unfair of you if you compare your date to your past girlfriend. Keep in mind that she is a totally different person with her own personality. Take the time to discover her; you might be pleased if you do. Comparing won’t get you anywhere.
• Never tell your date about the break-up of a previous relationship. Keep in mind that you asked her out so you both could have fun together. She is not your therapist, so do not recount your past relationship. Bury the past and move on. Here is a woman in front of you who is interested to know you more. Get to know her by initiating a conversation that could lead to a common interest.
• Enjoy. Dating should be exciting and relaxing. A woman can sense if you are enjoying your time with her or not. Don’t stress yourself trying so hard to make it the perfect date because it won’t be. But you both can enjoy it. After all, you did invite her out because you liked her in the first place. Be spontaneous and have fun.
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