Women are pretty hard people to please, especially on first dates and guys should really know about the things that turn them off and make them glance at their watch often. This means they want to leave gentlemen, and all your effort, that new shirt you bought, the cologne, the gift you brought along will be all put to waste by just one mistake.
Some guys make a combination of mistakes which means a strike within half an hour. It is time that more men in the world are happy and not left wondering why they are waiting at the side of the bar alone for the date that just had to go to the ladies. These are 5 dating turnoffs for women men should really know about. Firstly, it is punctuality. Never, ever be late and no matter how good your excuse is, you have already ruined the date. Arriving late on dates are simply a no-no , this shows total disregard to them and her fire would probably be snubbed in a wink. Just like a war makes an investment market plunge, her opinion of you will fall faster than rocks from height – so keep a good eye on the time and if you can, be there a bit ahead of schedule.
Another thing, dress good and pay attention to detail. It isn’t the 80’s anymore, so mismatched socks and messy hair doesn’t work unless your name is Sid Vicious. Dress casually in something you can pull off and never overdress for an occasion. You know how women always say that men always don’t listen? Well take that advice too heart. Whether or not women seem to have always something to say and men have something else to look at, it is always good to appear that you are listening and at least answer some of her questions. Make positive remarks now and then complimenting her on her dressing and all. This usually will top her charts pretty fast. Don’t be a lecher and leer all over her. Letting her know that your interest s in that one and only thing is simply a turn off.
Gaze deep into the windows of her soul and flash your best smile facing her face. No matter how plunging her neckline, remember, this is a test, and this is a test you must pass. If you must have a look, try to pull it off as a joke or do it discreetly. She wants you to look but she also wants to see if you can practice some self restraint. Women are tricky that way. And don’t get high or drunk on the first date, especially when you guys set it up at a bar. It is bad form. And don’t try to ply her with drinks; women know when you are just being generous or trying to get her drunk and in bed. If you have all these pointers in mind, any man will be successful on a first date, the rest is up to your personality and know how.
Friday, January 9, 2009
The Five Main Turnoffs For Women During Dating
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